Tuesday, December 11, 2012
When a tragic accident leaves Elle brain-dead, Matt is devastated. Though he cannot bear losing her, he knows his wife, a thoughtful and adventurous scientist, feared only one thing—a slow death. Just before Matt agrees to remove Elle from life support, the doctors discover that she is pregnant. Now what was once a clear-cut decision becomes an impossible choice. Matt knows how much this child would have meant to Elle. While there is no certainty her body can sustain the pregnancy, he is sure Elle would want the baby to have a chance. Linney, Matt's mother, believes her son is blind with denial. She loves Elle, too, and insists that Elle would never want to be kept alive by artificial means, no matter what the situation.
Divided by the love they share, driven by principle, Matt and Linney fight for what each believes is right, and the result is a disagreement that escalates into a controversial legal battle, ultimately going beyond one family and one single life.
Told with sensitivity and compassion, The Promise of Stardust is an emotionally resonant and thought-provoking tale that raises profound questions about life and death, faith and medicine—and illuminates, with beauty and grace, the power of love to wound . . . and to heal. -- William Morrow
I rarely review books months before they are released, but I thought I'd make an exception for a very special book called THE PROMISE OF STARDUST by Priscille Sibley. Book Club Girl first mentioned this book to me over the summer, and she had nothing but great things to say about it. And then she described the premise of the book and I knew it had the potential to be good... really good. I couldn't wait to read it and was so glad when the ARC arrived on my doorstep!
Despite my excitement, I waited until I had a day or two where I knew I'd have time to actually read the book the way it's meant to be read. For me, THE PROMISE OF STARDUST deserved to be read in as few sittings as possible. The main reason for that is because I knew I was going to get hooked and not want to put the book down; however, it ended up that there was another reason too. For much of the novel, THE PROMISE OF STARDUST deeply affected me. I cried over and over again and also felt sick in my stomach for the positions that all of the characters found themselves in.
THE PROMISE OF STARDUST is one of those family dramas that manages to touch upon so many relevant issues. Here's a quick summary: Matt and Elle have been trying for years to have a baby. After battling infertility and miscarriages, Elle is finally pregnant but hasn't told her husband yet. When a horrific accident leaves Elle brain dead, a fairly obvious decision to take her off of life support becomes extremely complex when Matt discovers that Elle is pregnant. This dilemma about Elle's rights (and the unborn child's) pits family members against each other and shows that there are never easy answers when it comes to life and death decisions.
I purposely gave you a very brief summary of the story. It is actually much more complex than that and truly delves into so many pertinent health and family issues in today's society. I admit that my initial impression of THE PROMISE OF STARDUST was that it was a major downer. I just kept asking myself, "How much heartache can one family take?" There were even times that I questioned if I could continue to read it, but those thoughts were quickly banished by my desire to see how things worked out.
I hope that the description of THE PROMISE OF STARDUST doesn't deter you from picking up this book. There are some very sad (and uncomfortable) situations, but the overall story is uplifting -- I promise! It is definitely worth the read and the range of emotions that all readers will experience! What's more (and kind of an added benefit) is how much THE PROMISE OF STARDUST made me think. I began to not only ask myself questions about the various characters' behaviors, but also about what I'd want or what I'd do in a similar situation. (I have to say that this book did raise many questions for me, and I'm still not entirely sure how I feel about many issues!)
I'm sure you can tell based on the book's description and my impressions that it would make for a fantastic book club discussion. As I mentioned before, this novel delves into so many complex issues about life and death as well as patient rights and rights of the unborn. In addition, the book examines marriage, parent/child relationships, faith, grief, infertility, and much more!
I was fortunate enough to be part of an on-line discussion with Ms. Sibley just a few weeks ago, and I have to say that I appreciated the book even more after hearing her talk about it. Ms. Sibley is a neonatal intensive care nurse who deals with life and death situations on a regular basis. She's had an inside look at how these decisions affect families, and I have a feeling that her characters reflect much of what she's seen.
I loved THE PROMISE OF STARDUST and I have a feeling that it's going to be a popular book club selection for 2013! Highly recommended for fans of family dramas as well as Jodi Picoult, Barbara Delinsky, and Kristin Hannah fans.
Thanks to the publisher for providing a review copy of this novel.